Do you keep hearing of people taking three months to a year off and think “OMG I’m so jealous, I wish I could do that, but -” and think of a reason why not?
Ever wonder how they justify it and make it work? So did we.
We’ve spoken to a LOT of people thinking about this – and many more who have done it (plus read probably 200 blogs by now). Here’s what we’ve learned.
1. There’s never a perfect time
It always seems like there’s a better time just down the road… but is there really?
The career cycle is endless. Promotions, raises, new projects, headhunter calls… There’s always a carrot dangling in front of you. As they proceed, pressure on relationship and family fronts rear their heads. But here are a few dangerous questions:
- Are those carrots things you’ve lusted after your whole life?
- Is the pressure on your relationship insurmountable – have you talked to your loved ones about your dreams?
- If you wrote down a list of your wildest dreams, would that promotion be on them? Or just a stepping stone?
- Are you doing things to live up to an image of yourself that you think others (colleagues, classmates, parents) have of you?
These are just part of the questions many have to face as they choose between their own dreams and the life others impose upon us. Choose your own destiny.
2. You can make adventure travel part of your career story
Sometimes, we can combine our dreams and our current career (or a different one) in a beautiful synergistic dance.
Take languages. Many employers see having learned a language (fluently! Basics get you no points) as an attractive bonus, a sign you can commit to learning a skill as well as a potential asset in certain roles. Maybe you think you can learn one while working and you slog away at Duolingo every day on your morning commute, but it seems to go nowhere. It’s not your fault – it’s hard to fit it in. On the other hand, it’s amazing how fast you can learn a language if you dive in head first and make it your sole, dominant focus for a month or more.
Or take volunteering. Many of us look forward to giving back in our later years. Why not embark on an ambitious project now, or help someone else with one of theirs? There’s so much we can do in the world and so many people and organizations in need. Once you’re out there you’ll be amazed how much you can contribute. And if you ever come back to your current life, people will value your contributions highly.
Finally, travelling is becoming the new MBA. Many choose an MBA as an excuse to travel. In the same vein, many are beginning to travel as a way of developing their cultural awareness and skills.
3. It can be a lot cheaper than you think
Yeah, Paris, London, Japan, New York and Australia are expensive. But have you thought about Nicaragua, a tropical country with beautiful beaches and no mosquitos? The Yunnan province of China, known for its rolling tea fields and eternal springtime? Or Talinn, Estonia, a city that looks like a fairytale but equipped with high speed internet and buzzing startup economy?
Want to know how much this could cost? We have been building travel itineraries for two that come to just $2,000 per month in living costs… for two. That’s including flights and staying in multiple countries, plus taking care of our health along the way and continuing to enjoy local life. In some places (like Kaohsiung, Taiwan) we’ll spend $1,000 a month while we’re there! It’s amazing how much you can save once you commit to living like a (wealthy) local, staying off the beaten tourist path and ignoring $100/day activities.
4. This might be the last year you can do it, because… life happens
Think of all the things you’re planning in your life: family plans, education, moving to be closer to family, and others… and now layer on the things that you’re not planning for and which could happen to you. Let’s not be dark but: a family member (or you!) might develop a serious health problem that needs your attention. You might have children a little earlier than you expect. Surprise! A war might break out, just like the papers keep claiming. The economy might collapse… again. Your team, division or company might fold. These things are not only terrible and disrupting to your life – they’re extremely common. I’m sure at least one of the above has ALREADY happened to you. You can’t prevent them, nor plan around them, so take control of your own destiny and act now.
5. Finally… You might never have to get a job again
This is my favorite one: You might just find you never have to work again. Many people, once they embark upon this life, find themselves rethinking what they actually want out of life. Some people even make full time lives out of it. Take Will Hatton, who started The Broke Backpacker and now makes five figures a month online through affiliate marketing and selling courses. There’s also Benny Lewis, aka The Irish Polyglot, who decided to start learn languages in his twenties, and now sells coaching services through Fluent In Three Months for ordinary people to add another language to their repertoire, still learning as he goes. David Nihill decided he wanted to become a better speaker, so he decided to take the ultimate plunge and become a stand-up comedian for a year. He wrote a book about it (Funny Business) and now offers courses on comedy speech-writing. In short, a little creativity and hustle and you might never go back to your desk job again.
Does this speak to you, or is it getting you in trouble with your boss for reading it at work? Let us know!